Cliff Young

• Knowing When (and When Not) to Turn the Other Cheek
  I refuse to allow my joy to be disrupted because someone cut in front of me in line, didn’t reply to a text, seems to be getting preferential treatment, or has more than me. In learning to turn the...
  Tuesday, June 23, 2020
• Should You Pursue Someone Who Isn't Interested Initially?
  Just because two people do not hit it off does not make either one necessarily bad or wrong.
  Thursday, November 1, 2018
• Can I Still be Friends with My Ex?
  A reader is suspicious of his girlfriend, who keeps mementos from past relationships. Read inside for what our columnists think!
  Thursday, October 4, 2018
• What You Need to Know about Online Dating
  It’s never where we meet someone but our motives when we do meet them.
  Thursday, September 20, 2018
• Should I Listen to My Parents' Dating Advice?
  Parents are innately protective of their children, but at some point they also need to let go.
  Thursday, August 23, 2018
• Can Doctrinal Differences Make You Unequally Yoked?
  A reader asks of dating couples, can doctrinal differences be a red flag? See what our columnists have to say!
  Thursday, August 9, 2018
• Afraid to Commit: Am I Being Selfish?
  I don't want to care for his disabled family, but I know God wants me to be self-sacrificial. Should I marry him?
  Thursday, June 28, 2018
• How Do I Know if it's Time to Move On?
  My boyfriend and I have broken up and gotten back together 22 times in the time span of three years. This isn't normal, right?
  Thursday, June 14, 2018
• How Can I Make Friends with the Opposite Sex?
  I would love to have male friends, but I don’t know how! How can I get more comfortable being around guys in a way that doesn’t look awkward, or making others think I’m being flirtatious?
  Tuesday, December 26, 2017
• Is Kissing before Marriage Really a Sin?
  "He and his lady friend have been serious for a while, but when he asked to kiss her, his very dedication to God was questioned..." Read our answers inside!
  Thursday, November 2, 2017
• How Do You Know if God Wants You to be Celibate Your Whole Life?
  You may find celibacy isn’t for you someday when God changes your desire as one of your friendships develops into something more.
  Thursday, September 21, 2017
• How to Date When You Have a Condition Like Asperger's
  Don’t be a statistic, set your goal this year to find that one friend who believes in and will walk alongside you, and secondly get involved in some group or groups at church.
  Thursday, July 6, 2017
• What to Do When It Seems Like God is Telling You and Your Ex Different Things
  Pray for God to open your heart for whatever He wants rather than for what you already have in mind.
  Thursday, June 8, 2017
• Is Casual Sex Ever OK for Christians?
  Each of us reaches points along our journey where we are faced with relatively major decisions or milestones in our life often unbeknownst to the seriousness of our choice at the time.
  Tuesday, December 13, 2016
• How to Avoid Being Led On
  The pain of feeling deceived may still linger, but by living out your life in the way God designed and planned for you, not letting this experience impact you negatively in the future is how you...
  Thursday, November 10, 2016
• What to Do When Someone You Like is Dating Someone Else
  Just because you like someone, it may not a green light to pursue them.
  Thursday, October 20, 2016
• How to Date in Today's World without Online Dating Services
  Getting involved at your local church would be my initial (but not only) place to begin.
  Tuesday, October 4, 2016
• Will God Tell You Who to Marry?
  No matter how your revelation was received, you should take the steps to find whether or not your interest has received the same message.
  Thursday, September 15, 2016