Dr. David B. Hawkins

• Pornography: The Secret Addiction
  ‘For whatever is hidden is meant to be disclosed, and whatever is concealed is meant to be brought out into the open’ (Mark 4: 22).
  Tuesday, November 6, 2012
• When Marriage Counseling Fails
  "Does counseling really help, or is it possible that counseling actually makes matters worse at times? We need something different."
  Friday, November 2, 2012
• Cultivating Friendship In Marriage
  When friendship fades, irritability comes. We find ourselves feeling a sense of sadness about the love that is covered with obligation.
  Wednesday, October 24, 2012
• Dancing Lightly on Raw Spots
  What if your mate needs you to dance lightly around a certain topic? Could there be a way to address it without being blunt or hurtful?
  Monday, October 22, 2012
• Two Steps Forward, One Back
  Set backs can be a learning experience if you have the right frame of mind.
  Monday, October 15, 2012
• Breaking Through the Stone Wall
  "Stonewalling" is a very destructive pattern that must change for couples to properly communicate.
  Monday, October 8, 2012
• How to Deal with a Grown-Up Family
  Relating to aging parents, adult siblings, their children as well as my own children, and their children...well, it gets tricky.
  Tuesday, September 18, 2012
• Beware of The Shift
  Solomon said, “Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop a matter before a dispute breaks out.” (Proverbs 17: 14)
  Tuesday, September 4, 2012
• Don’t Talk to a Woman (or Man) on Fire
  The Apostle Paul says, “In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
  Tuesday, August 28, 2012
• Be At Peace With Others
  “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12: 18).
  Tuesday, August 21, 2012
• The Power of Taking Responsibility
  Taking responsibility is a fundamental issue, and struggling in this area leads to additional problems for couples.
  Tuesday, August 14, 2012
• Low-Grade Marriage Headache
  “It seems like things have been mediocre for so long, I don’t know if I am expecting too much.”
  Monday, July 30, 2012
• The Dangers of Stonewalling
  Couples who use stonewalling to avoid issues are really creating more problems in the long run.
  Monday, July 23, 2012
• Extending Grace to Your Spouse
  When we marry, we agree to accept each other with all thier foibles—and we all have them.
  Monday, July 16, 2012
• Facing Hot Issues
  Most couples have “hot issues” they would rather not talk about. These are the topics that bring instant tension.
  Monday, July 9, 2012
• Third Eye on the Blink
  The third eye is that part of us that watches what we say and do. It is an ability that we cultivate to watch not only what we say and do, but to watch the reaction of the person we are talking to.
  Monday, July 2, 2012
• Cultivating Self-Awareness
  It has been said that we cannot be fully aware or appreciative of others unless we are first aware and appreciative of ourselves.
  Monday, June 25, 2012
• Try a Little Kindness...In Your Marriage
  Planting seeds of kindness will bring a harvest of good fruit to the marriage.
  Tuesday, June 12, 2012