Dr. David B. Hawkins

• 5 Steps for Successful Christian Marriage Counseling
  Do you ever feel like your marriage is adrift, with no one guiding the ship?
  Tuesday, October 4, 2022
• 5 Reasons Participating in a Men's Group Is Beneficial to Your Life and Marriage
  More men are seeking opportunities to gather with other men for the purpose of emotional growth and ridding themselves of defensive, crazy-making tactics that destroy relationships. Those seeking...
  Friday, September 30, 2022
• Sexual Intimacy Begins with the Heart
  For many women—and men—sexual connection is dependent upon emotional connection. Intimacy—"into me see" is based on spending quality time together. Sexuality often begins with a heart connection....
  Wednesday, August 3, 2022
• 6 Ways to Become More Attracted to Your Spouse
  The years tend to take their toll on us physically, emotionally and can even impact the issue of being attracted to, and by, our mate.
  Monday, August 1, 2022
• 5 Ways to Rebuild the Trust in Your Marriage After Deception
  Intimacy—“into me see”-- requires safety and vulnerability, but to be vulnerable means you must trust the other person. You must know them and base your decisions on that knowledge. Trust is based...
  Tuesday, July 26, 2022
• Narcissistic Men and the Women Who Love Them
  “The ego of a narcissistic man will bruise easily. He will expect special treatment," explains Dr. David.
  Friday, June 24, 2022
• You Have to Address Your Sins to Have a Successful Marriage
  Solomon’s counsel is clear: we must understand ourselves, confess, renounce our sins, and turn from them.
  Friday, June 10, 2022
• Help, My Spouse Is Suicidal
  Suicide is devastating and the effects of suicide on family members can be severe and far-reaching.
  Monday, May 16, 2022
• How to Recover from Pornography Addiction
  From men who have affairs, to those who are addicted to pornography, sexual addictions are particularly malignant and destructive to marriages.
  Monday, March 14, 2022
• How to Cope with Family Estrangement
  How do we go on with life if estrangement and brokenness is to forever be part of the picture?
  Tuesday, January 25, 2022
• When Your Spouse Makes You Walk on Eggshells
  Safety is a requirement for a healthy relationship. What happens when you feel constantly unsafe in your marriage?
  Monday, January 17, 2022
• What to Do When Your Spouse Is a Liar
  Anything less than complete honesty will begin to erode trust. As trust erodes, the possibility for genuine intimacy and attachment erodes as well.
  Monday, December 6, 2021
• Why You Can't Force a Spouse into Counseling
  A man sent to counseling, without some element of internal motivation and absent significant input from his mate, will likely end poorly.
  Monday, December 6, 2021
• Help! I'm Struggling with Sexual Sin
  We have all been wounded in relationships at one time or another. Facing those wounds and healing from them is a critical step toward moving forward in our lives.
  Wednesday, December 1, 2021
• What Is Considered Verbal Abuse?
  Verbal abuse is verbal abuse, regardless of the perpetrator’s faith. Bad behavior is bad behavior, regardless of any specific aspect of their person.
  Tuesday, November 30, 2021
• The Power of Thanks Giving
  While Thanksgiving is a day of celebration, thanks giving is an attitude that can be cultivated.
  Friday, November 12, 2021
• How to Solve Problems in Your Marriage
  He argued that his unfaithfulness was wrong, but was now over. She argued that his past meant he would always be in danger and could not be trusted.
  Wednesday, November 3, 2021
• Why Isn't Your Spouse Listening to You?
  You can’t make him listen to you. He can’t make you listen to him. We can only put ourselves in an emotional and spiritual space where someone might want to listen to us and connect to us.
  Friday, October 8, 2021