The Courage To Let Go - Encouragement for Today - May 10, 2024
The Courage To Let Go
DR. AVRIL OCCILIEN-SIMILIEN, COMPEL Training Member
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“Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth.” Psalm⬠127:4 (NIV)
Chubby cheeks, wobbly legs, drool-filled smile, and eyes that follow my face with wonder. This is my mental image of our firstborn daughter.
While preparing for high school graduation, she spoke eight words I did not want to hear: “Mom, I want to take a gap year.” Every conversation about college options and her passions had turned into discussions about her deep desire to reach the world for Jesus.
In my mind, taking a gap year before college was out of the question. I had my daughter’s life all planned out. High school, college, career, marriage, kids — in that order. (Can you tell I have control issues?)
But this moment was the beginning of God taking me through a season of letting go — a season that freed me from the lie that I am in control.
Still, I resisted. Refusing to let go of the plans I had already made, I lamented, Why, God? Why must You test me in this way?
I sensed God’s response in a way that felt very clear: Will you trust Me with her? Will you let Me do My work in her life? I have great plans for her that will take her places where you will not be able to help her or control the outcome. I want to do My work in her — but not as long as you hold on too tightly. I want you to let go.
Then God placed this scripture on my heart: “Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth” (Psalm 127:4).
Can you imagine a trained warrior who has spent her entire life preparing for battle by sharpening her arrows and perfecting her aim? Imagine this trained warrior going into battle, retrieving her arrow from the quiver, placing it in the bow, pulling back, perfectly aiming, but then not letting go.
This is what we do as parents when we spend years pouring God's Truth into our children, sacrificing sleep, spending hours on our knees in prayer, preparing them for the future … and then not letting go, not releasing them to fulfill their God-given purpose.
My current season is a difficult but necessary one: learning to let go of my first arrow.
As I prepare to send our firstborn on this new, unplanned journey, I see those chubby cheeks now chiseled with age. I see those wobbly legs now strengthened to bear the load of her path ahead. I see those drool-filled lips now armed with the Truth of God’s Word. And I see those eyes that once followed me now firmly fixed on Jesus — the Author and the Finisher of her faith (Hebrews 12:2).
Friend, as you raise your children, may God grant you the wisdom and strength to guide and mold them. May He also grant you the faith and courage to let go.
Lord, I thank You for being a loving, omniscient God who has plans for me and the people in my life. May I always remember that Your ways are higher than my ways (Isaiah 55:9) and that Your plans are always good. Grant me a heart of surrender. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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FOR DEEPER STUDY
Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take” (NLT).
What plans have you made that you are struggling to surrender to God? Pause and reflect, and then write those plans in a journal. Pray and ask God for a heart of surrender to His ways and His plans.
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