2. Prayer for wisdom and discernment
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“Your ways are not my ways, Lord. Your ways are higher. You are infinitely wiser than me. So, please give me wisdom so that I can successfully escape temptation. Please give me discernment to avoid temptation. I trust that you will give me these things. Thank you.”
Solomon suggests that we say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” and to refer to understanding as a close relative so that wisdom and understanding may keep us away from temptation (Proverbs 7:4–5).
Proverbs 4:5 says that we must acquire wisdom and understanding. According to Proverbs 4:7, we must not forsake wisdom because it will protect us; if we love wisdom, it will guard us. Wisdom is supreme – so we must acquire wisdom and understanding (Proverbs 4:7).
How do we acquire wisdom and discernment? To start, we should deeply respect God. Proverbs 1:7 states that fearing the Lord is the beginning of discernment, but fools have despised wisdom and moral instruction.
Proverbs 9:10 states that the beginning of wisdom is to fear the Lord, and acknowledging God is understanding.
We should also obey God. Psalm 111:10 states that to obey the Lord is the fundamental principle for wise living, and those who carry out God’s rules acquire good moral insight.
To gain wisdom and discernment, we should strive to be like Jesus. Jesus became for us wisdom from God (1 Corinthians 1:30). We should do our best to be like the one who is wisdom itself from God.
To gain wisdom and discernment, we should also associate with wise people. Those who associate with wise people grow wise (Proverbs 13:20).
To gain wisdom and discernment, we should read Proverbs, part of the inspired Word of God. Proverbs 1:1–6 NET states:
"The proverbs of Solomon, son of Daivd, king of Israel: To learn wisdom and moral instruction, to discern wise counsel. To receive moral instruction in skillful living, with righteousness, justice, and equity. To impart shrewdness to the morally naïve, a discerning plan to the young person. (Let the wise also hear and gain instruction, and let the discerning acquire guidance!) To discern the meaning of a proverb and a parable, the sayings of the wise and their riddles."
Wisdom and discernment ultimately come from God. Proverbs 2:6 states that the Lord gives wisdom, and from him comes knowledge and understanding.
So, the best and most important way to gain wisdom and discernment is to simply ask God for them. We cannot obtain wisdom if God does not give it to us. James 1:5 states that if we are deficient in wisdom, we should ask God for it. God deeply desires to give good gifts to his children.
With wisdom and discernment held close, we have what we need to avoid tempting scenarios and make the right decisions when temptation comes.
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