Singles Archives

A few years ago someone said the words I most needed to hear as a single woman. Ironically, it was another single woman who uttered these words. ...

A male reader wants to be chivalrous but is told that his efforts to do so are not needed. Is this just old-fashioned thinking, should he stop...

There is the delicate balance between hope and practicality. There is the reality of delay. There is the practical difficulty of finding someone...

Did you know you can wake up your brain? That’s right. The mental equivalent of a venti double-shot might be almost anything from playing Wii® to...

The expected is that person who has been the object of our desire—a mere concept, the personification of our dreams and simply wife or husband. ...

Jesus always called His disciples one by one. Matthew was a tax collector—not anyone’s favorite type of person by a long shot. Who wanted to be...

In an attempt to help singles avoid a destructive relationship or a painful marriage I offer insight on how to detect a toxic, abusive person...

Oftentimes, we aren’t able to comprehend how the Lord is working and why. However, just because God does not work according to how we think...

The myth of simplicity beckons us toward a solution—any solution other than the ambiguity of faith. And faith beckons us towards deeper trust...

A reader thought she had a great first date with a man who then told her: "I'm not at a place right now emotionally where I can handle dating or...

What is the “magic formula” for a long and happy life together?

While it is natural to desire easy answers and quick methods, it is more a reflection of our flesh than of the Spirit. Let’s face it, it is far...

Being intentional about who you spend significant time with can save you heartache and perhaps nudge you closer to finding your future mate. To...

God calls each of us—many out of what we think are our mundane everyday lives, to do something extraordinary and to really live, for Him. So who...

The myth of simplicity suggests that there should be a simple answer and there is—"Jesus loves me, this I know." Rather than let my circumstances...