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Baggage From The Past - Part 4

Learning from a failed relationship can be extremely difficult. The combination of loneliness, anger, and guilt make it hard to distill the lessons...

Baggage From The Past - Part 4

How to Fail at Falling In Love

By attaching ourselves to another person, many needy singles believe, we become instantly whole. Complete. All our needs are met. Case closed. The...

How to Fail at Falling In Love

Baggage From The Past - Part 3

Most clinical assessments of grief judge death of a spouse, death of a child, and divorce as the three most traumatic events a human being can...

Baggage From The Past - Part 3

Every one of us grew up in a home where ways of relating were modeled. We absorbed ways of expressing affection and anger, of talking and...

Model Behavior

Baggage From The Past - Part 2

I say all the time, on every radio program or television program I'm on, one bad marriage can turn into two bad marriages so fast it will make your...

Baggage From The Past - Part 2

The Marriage Checklist

For most of us, choosing our spouse is the most significant decision we will make. The person you choose to wake up next to each morning has the...

The Marriage Checklist

Baggage From The Past - Part 1

If you've been married before then you may be asking yourself, "What do I need to resolve before I marry again?"

Baggage From The Past - Part 1

Parents, Relatives, and Friends - Part 3

In this final installment I want to explain how you can take steps to make this disagreement you have with your family and friends enhance your...

Parents, Relatives, and Friends - Part 3

The Importance of Saying I Love You

These little words are like nutrients. Without a consistent dose of verbal expression, without saying and hearing those words, the soul of a...

The Importance of Saying I Love You

Parents, Relatives and Friends - Part 2

I'm not holding out family members as master matchmakers, but I see that the best marriages are the ones that involve two people who have taken...

Parents, Relatives and Friends - Part 2

Heal Your Hurts for Better Relationships

I never thought I had any "hurts." I pretty much sailed through my school years and even college without many jolts. Relative to others, I’ve never...

Heal Your Hurts for Better Relationships

The Grass is Always Greener ... or Is It?

Is it possible that our mommy friends look to us singles as the "blessed ones" ... all the while we are wishing for their lives?

The Grass is Always Greener ... or Is It?

Parents, Relatives and Friends - Part 1

What do you do if you are thinking about marriage and you have virtually no support for your decision from relatives and close friends?

Parents, Relatives and Friends - Part 1

Get Authentic by Living in the Present

Because our society so heavily emphasizes externals, there is not much discussion in the media, at social gatherings, or even around family dinner...

Get Authentic by Living in the Present

Six Steps to Contentment

The secret of contentment lies in discovering who in the world you are and mobilizing your courage to be that person.

Six Steps to Contentment

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