Singles Archives

Is My Relationship the Problem, or is it Just Me?

If I am having trouble in a relationship, or relating to someone, how do I know when it is my past pains and wounds causing the issue, or if it's...

Is My Relationship the Problem, or is it Just Me?

What Are Some Healthy Approaches to Dating?

In our Christian culture, we can make everything really serious, really fast. Nicole helps us understand why it's honoring for men and women to go...

What Are Some Healthy Approaches to Dating?

Knowing When (and When Not) to Turn the Other Cheek

I refuse to allow my joy to be disrupted because someone cut in front of me in line, didn’t reply to a text, seems to be getting preferential...

Knowing When (and When Not) to Turn the Other Cheek

Will I Lose Her Forever if I Let Her Go?

"I fell in love with a friend from college, and prayerfully think she is my potential wife...but she says she's not ready yet."

Will I Lose Her Forever if I Let Her Go?

How to Find Lasting Contentment in a Discontent World

What if our lives are not quite what we thought they would look like by now? Can we be ok with that?

How to Find Lasting Contentment in a Discontent World

How God’s Mercy Helps You Move beyond Life’s Messes

While it’s natural to want to fix or hide the messes that confront you, that’s not how God wants you to handle messes.

How God’s Mercy Helps You Move beyond Life’s Messes

Should I Date a Former Drug Addict?

A reader writes, "I'm looking for the truth about the challenges of dating someone who has formerly struggled with substance abuse."

Should I Date a Former Drug Addict?

Is Singleness a Spiritual Gift?

God may not ask our opinion on what spiritual gifts we might want, but does he give us gifts that are incompatible with our desires?

Is Singleness a Spiritual Gift?

Can We be Happy without Sex?

“Professor Kuehne,” a student will say, “are you seriously going to try to persuade us that if we forgo [sex] outside of marriage we can have a...

Can We be Happy without Sex?

What Not to Say to Singles

Here are a few things my happily coupled friends should avoid saying to singles.

What Not to Say to Singles

What to Do When Life Hands You Lemons

“When life hands you lemons, make lemonade.” This sounds a lot better when you’re not the one holding the lemons.

What to Do When Life Hands You Lemons

Are Single Men Afraid of Dating?

Many young men seem to fear dating. Should they "man up"? Or is something more at play, here?

Are Single Men Afraid of Dating?

Did God Tell Him to Break Up With Me?

If he felt it was "wrong" to be together and I feel that it is "wrong" to be apart - what should be done? Is God talking to one, both, or neither...

Did God Tell Him to Break Up With Me?

10 Things to Do While You’re Still Single

No matter who you are or what you’ve been through, the struggles of singleness don’t have to take center-stage.

10 Things to Do While You’re Still Single

Are You the Sluggard or the Ant?

What does an ant do? He works hard, is able to carry more than its own body weight, and works together for the good of the community.

Are You the Sluggard or the Ant?

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