Choosing to Heal

Do you remember the story where Jesus asks the man by the pool of “Do you want to get well?” At first this question sounds crazy. Of course the man wants to get well. But wait. Just before Jesus asks the question we’re given some vital information—“he had been in this condition for a long time” (John 5:6). While we don’t know the man’s heart, we have to wonder if he struggled with what we now call learned helplessness. Many of us, having grown familiar with certain struggles, give up and quit wrestling with them. We settle into thinking, feeling and acting in ways that does not promote our growth and healing. Are there any areas of your life that need an infusion of vitality, hope and courage? If so, decide today to do your part to get well.

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.