Learning to Trust Again

What is one to do when your trust has been shattered? Perhaps you’ve been victimized by infidelity, abandoned by a neglectful spouse or perhaps even lied to be a friend. In each of these situations you may want to learn to trust again and yet naturally, you wonder if that is the wisest thing to do. In some situations you would be well-advised to be cautious. In other circumstances you will be able to talk through your pain and rekindle a trusting, loving relationship. No matter what, you cannot carry unforgiveness around without it causing you emotional and spiritual turmoil. Remember these words from Scripture: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.

Originally published May 21, 2019.