There is nothing that feels so healing, soothing and comforting as a well-spoken apology. Half-apologies, on the other hand, deepen the wound. When apologizing, consider the admonition that “godly sorrow leads to repentance” (2 Corinthians 7:10). If truly sorry, we will admit wrong, taking full responsibility for our actions without excuse, admit sorrow, a statement of understanding of the impact of our actions and a plan for restoration. Are you sorry for how you have hurt someone and are you ready to make amends?
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.
