Unforgiveness Begets Bitterness

Madison was angry with her church.  She had organized the Christmas program every year for the past 10 years.  This year she was asked to participate in the event with Nancy being deemed coordinator.

Madison’s pride was hurt and there was no way she was going to just be a helper.  She was so hurt and angry that she began to speak against the leaders in the church and spread dissention with anyone who would listen.

Madison became so inflamed, that she decided this was not the church where she belonged.  Taking it even further, Madison decided to isolate herself from any relationships with other Christians in this church.

As a result of her decision, she became bitter and very lonely.  She was missing out on encouraging words from those who wanted to love her.  She had closed herself off into a world where she believed she would not be hurt again.

(Hebrews 10:24-25a) "And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together.

Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.

Originally published August 18, 2020.