As a natural people-pleaser, it is tempting to try to satisfy everyone all the time. However, doing so compromises my best efforts. Trying to be everything to everyone means I am not giving my best to anyone, and this is unfair and irresponsible. Do you know how to set boundaries on your time and the things/ activities you say ‘yes’ to? Recognize that saying ‘no’ to some things means saying ‘yes’ will have an even greater impact.
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.