It takes a great deal of humility to admit mistakes. Yet to not do so means you will be carrying the heavy yoke of pride, where you must cover, deny or rationalize away mistakes. Denying problems, in fact, only adds to the original problem. Now there are layers of problems that must be faced. It can be incredibly freeing to simply admit to any mistakes we make. Remember the Scripture, “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). One of the best ways to live in peace is to admit it when you are wrong. Try it and notice the improvement in your relationships.
Dr. David Hawkins, MBA, MSW, MA, PhD, is a Christian Clinical Psychologist and Director of the Marriage Recovery Center. He has helped bring healing to thousands of marriages and individuals and is passionate about working with couples in crisis. If you need help, please reach out to his Client Care Team at 206.219.0145 or through their website. Dr. Hawkins is also a speaker & trainer for the American Association of Christian Counselors and is a best-selling author of over thirty books including Never Fight Again, Gauranteed and When Loving Him is Hurting You. He has two grown sons, is happily married to Christie Hawkins, and lives on Bainbridge Island, outside Seattle, WA.