We tend to talk similar to those we are around—hence the saying, “Birds of a feather flock together.” Unfortunately, studies have shown that instead of us being a positive influence on others, others actually pull us down to their level. So, be very careful about who you choose for friends. Know that they will be a strong influence on you—for better or for worse. “The righteous is a guide to his neighbor, but the way of the wicked leads them astray” (Proverbs 12:26).
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.