I’m amazed at how frequently I ask my wife, Christie, if I can have a “do over.” She nearly always grants me the opportunity to be a better person, acting in a healthier way than I did the first time. In each situation it’s important to eat a healthy dose of “humble pie,” reflecting that I’m truly sorry and have learned something from the experience. I must share with her an understanding of the hurt I have caused her. How about you? Are you willing to take full responsibility for the hurt you’ve caused someone, and having done so, asked for an opportunity to make it right? Try it—it works!
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.