Most of us say that we love our mate. Indeed, we do. However, can we say that we practice what the Apostle Paul said: “Love is not self-seeking.” (I Corinthians 13) In other words, loving our mate well means we set our own agenda aside, not seeking our own ways, and extend ourselves for our mate. This requires that we know our mate so well that we consider what is best for her/ him and sacrifice ourselves for their welfare. We go out of our way to meet their immediate needs. That is true love.
Dr. David Hawkins is the director of the Marriage Recover Center where he counsels couples in distress. He is the author of over 30 books, including Dealing With the CrazyMakers in Your Life, 90 Days to a Fantastic Marriage, and When Pleasing Others is Hurting You. Dr. Hawkins grew up in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and lives with his wife on the South Puget Sound where he enjoys sailing, biking, and skiing. He has active practices in two Washington cities. You can also find Dr. Hawkins on Facebook and Twitter. Dr. Hawkins offers a free, 20 minute consultation, with requests sent to his email address at drdavid@marriagerecoverycenter.com. Also, remember his guarantee at The Marriage Recovery Center: 3 Days To A New Marriage, Guaranteed! He is also excited to continue offering his special eBook, A Love Life of Your Dreams free for you to download.