Hands-on Faith for Families – week of August 9, 2021
Theme: Reach Out to Others
Gentleness in Speech
Scripture: A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1)
Play: List five words that describe your best friend. Now list five words that describe someone you don’t get along with very well. Say each of the 10 words out loud and consider how you’d feel if each of those words were used to describe you.
Talk: Words are powerful. “The tongue has the power of life and death” (Proverbs 18:21). Wow! What you say — and how you say it — really does matter. Words can hurt, or they can heal.
When you respond to hurtful words with more hurtful words, you only make things worse. If you answer with gentleness, you can soothe angry or bitter feelings and restore broken relationships. Our gentle words show people that they have value, whether you agree or disagree with them. Proverbs 12:18 says, “Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”
Pray: Thank God for giving you the ability to be gentle with your words. Ask Him to help you choose your words carefully so they are not hurtful.
— Renee Gray-Wilburn
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