Today's iBelieve Truth devotional is from a special guest, a veteran, in honor of 9/11.
When I joined the Marine Corps, I realized I was born to fight for freedom. I fought for those who couldn’t fight for themselves. And when I transitioned from military to civilian life, I realized I was born to fight a new enemy — the dark enemy of suicide.
Every day, more than 20 veterans take their lives. My purpose fuels my resolve to do everything I can to end this tragic trend.
What are the passions that fuel your desire to wake up every day? Whether it’s the fight to end veteran suicide or another cause to which you feel called, here’s the truth: we need more women and men to activate their God-given purpose.
It’s not a secret that our nation faces numerous challenges: economic struggles, family dynamics, ethical dilemmas and questions about morality. Though we remain the greatest nation in the world, we’re in dire need of strong leaders, not only at the top in government, but across all levels of society.
We need people willing to lead with character and conviction, understanding their “why,” defining their “win” and committing to do the work required.
As a combat veteran who served in Iraq and Afghanistan, I’ve experienced firsthand the importance of knowing your “why.” Soldiers are trained to handle pressure and persevere in the face of adversity. We endure the hardships and win the war. But without a sense of purpose — whether rooted in patriotism or a calling from God — this would be impossible.
Every war is fought through a series of battles. Between these battles, commanders often take a tactical pause — a term common in military service — when uncertain about what lies ahead. This pause allows time to look, listen and think.
My concern for leaders today, whether they hold formal positions or lead informally within their teams and families, is that we’re not allowing these lulls to occur. Neglecting to take a tactical pause can have serious consequences, impacting both our physical and mental health, and ultimately, the effectiveness of our activities.
Many believe that to make a difference in the world, they need to be of a certain age, have an extraordinary idea or have fame or great wealth. The truth is that leadership is not about position; it’s about influence. It’s built on sincerity, reliability, a respect for others and a heart to serve God.
Life gives us one shot. Birth and death are guaranteed. Let’s make the most of the time in between, looking introspectively and asking God where we can be effective conduits of positive change.
One year, I competed in a grueling 400-mile off-road race through treacherous terrain called the Mint 400. There’s a special division for the military, with each team representing a branch of the U.S. armed forces. Many teams faced engine breakdowns, collisions and other dangerous obstacles that prevented them from completing the course. However, by being methodical and careful, my team was one of only two vehicles to finish the race. We weren’t the fastest, but we were deliberate and persistent.
This lesson translates to any form of purposeful leadership: align your goals and actions with a clear and meaningful mission that resonates with your values and the broader impact you want to make.
Again, leadership is action, not a title or position. Effective leadership demands self-care and personal growth, striving to be the best version of yourself. Regardless of your background, if you have heart, commitment, an ethical and moral compass, and grit, you can achieve anything in this country and be propelled to greatness. There are no excuses.
While some careers, like becoming an astronaut or neurosurgeon, are exceptionally challenging to attain, countless other paths are open to those willing to work hard and persevere.
Focus on the journey, not just the destination. Take a tactical pause and enjoy the process.
Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that God has great plans for us. Live with that sense of purpose.
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Dr. Damon Friedman, a decorated veteran of combat in Iraq and Afghanistan, retired from the Air Force as a lieutenant colonel in special operations. He is the recipient of the Spirit of Hope Award from the Secretary of Defense, chairman of the Veterans Service Alliance, and founder of SOF Missions, which works with veterans with PTSD.
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