Our Brains Like it Simple
By Deidre Braley
Bible Reading
“But Saul, still breathing threats and murder against the disciples of the Lord, went to the high priest and asked him for letters to the synagogues at Damascus, so that if he found any belonging to the Way, men or women, he might bring them bound to Jerusalem. Now as he went on his way, he approached Damascus, and suddenly a light from heaven shone around him. And falling to the ground, he heard a voice saying to him, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” And he said, “Who are you, Lord?” And he said, “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting.” – Acts 9:1-5
The bell jingled as I stepped inside; my little dog Pablo leapt up to greet me, all shorn and shivering and desperate to leave. “How’d he do today?” I sighed as I scooped him into my arms. We had our usual exchange, the dog groomer and me: he’d been a nervous wreck (per usual), she’d done the oatmeal bath, and we’d be coming back in six weeks. Pablo licked my face and begged me to go, but as the groomer handed me his next appointment card, she hesitated.
“There’s uh…well, um…could I get your professional opinion on something?” And from under the cushions on her couch, she extracted a notebook: this secret prize, this shimmering of possibility. Amidst the shampoos and shears and flea treatments, this woman held out a collection of poems she’d been working on in private. “Would you read one and tell me what you think?”
She began to ask me how I know when a poem is done and how I know when it’s done well. We talked about the trickery of metaphor and the possibility of publication. Did we tear up at this recognition of kindred-ness—this realization that we were a little less alone in the world than we’d been before my dog’s haircut? It’s possible.
I share this with you because, before this interaction, I never would have known that our dog’s groomer was also a poet. Our exchanges until that point had been limited to conversations around sensitive skin, clipper settings, and Venmo payments. But when she pulled out that notebook filled with poetry, I realized she’d been kindred all along—I just hadn’t imagined or known it yet.
I’m afraid that I do this all the time, this designating of spaces and titles for other people. Apparently there’s a name for this—it’s called social identity theory. See, our brains like to make things as simple as possible, and for that reason, we subconsciously engage in this act of categorizing. We put people into groups so we can understand them better.
While we can’t fault our brains for trying to make things easier, there are spiritual implications that we need to be aware of, here. Because if we aren’t aware of the categories we’re putting people into, we may begin to make assumptions about the state of their souls that simply aren’t true.
Think of Saul, for example. As someone who was “breathing threats and murder against the disciples of the Lord” (Acts 9:1), the disciples easily categorized him as an enemy. It’s probably safe to say that none of them imagined that the Lord would ever be able to reach him—let alone use him—for the glory of the Kingdom. In fact, even after the Lord struck Saul blind and ordered the disciple Ananias to visit him and lay hands on him so he could regain his sight, Ananias said, “Lord, I have heard from many about this man, how much evil he has done to your saints at Jerusalem. And here he has authority from the chief priests to bind all who call on your name” (Acts 9:13-14). In Ananias’ mind, Saul was firmly in the ‘enemy’ category.
But God did not relent, instead telling Ananias, “Go, for he is a chosen instrument of mine to carry my name before the Gentiles and kings and the children of Israel” (Acts 9:15).
Intersecting Faith & Life
We are in a season where political tensions are high, yes. Our brains are in super-categorization mode, which is made all the easier by the signs on our lawns and the flags that fly in front of our homes. We are quick to put ourselves into categories—and even quicker to do the same for others. We may even be tempted to make assumptions about what God thinks about people based on the categories we’ve put them in.
But even outside of politics, we may tend to hang back from certain people, never looking them in the eyes and considering that they, too, are children of the Living God. Never considering telling them about Jesus or the hope we have because we don’t believe it will matter or make any difference to them.
If God could soften Saul’s heart and then totally revolutionize his actions, perspective, spirit, and life, though, what makes us think he can’t do the same for any single person he puts in our midst?
Today, let’s look up and around, and let’s catch ourselves in the act of categorizing the people we meet. Instead of putting them into neat and tidy boxes, let’s remember that dog groomers can be poets, that Pharisees can be chosen instruments of God, and that the very people before us can be hungry for and receptive to the same hope we’ve been given.
Further Reading:
Here are some stories of other people whose categories made them ‘unlikely’ to follow God—but they did. Be encouraged.
Rahab: Joshua 2
The woman at the well: John 4:1-42
Zaccheus: Luke 19:1-10
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Deidre Braley is a wife and mother to three children. She is the author and host behind The Second Cup, a collection of essays, poems, and podcast episodes where holiness and humanity collide. She recently published her debut poetry collection, The Shape I Take. Deidre is an editor with The Truly Co, and a contributor for The Way Back to Ourselves and Aletheia Today, among others. Her ideal day is spent eating chocolate croissants and having long chats about writing, dreams, and theology. Connect with Deidre on Instagram @deidrebraley.
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