October 17
Read Mark 10 -- 11
The Pharisees asked Jesus: Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? He answered: From the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And the two shall be one flesh: so then they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder (Mark 10:2, 6-9; Genesis 1:27; 2:24).
The husband and wife relationship is linked, both jointly and individually, under the authority of Christ (Romans 12:5; Galatians 3:28). Most divorces are the outcome of not recognizing that God said to both the husband and the wife: Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God (Ephesians 5:21). A mutually supportive attitude will characterize both husband and wife if they are to succeed in building a harmonious marriage. Both must recognize their responsibility of caring for each other's spiritual as well as physical well-being.
It is the husband's privilege and responsibility to provide for his wife's spiritual needs, for the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the Head of the Church: and this is made possible when Husbands, love their wives, even as Christ also loved the church. . . . Let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband (5:23,25,33).
God created the world and put Adam in charge. He created woman to be his helpmate. Among other things, a helpmate is a copartner who gives support. Perhaps most important, the key to true Christian conduct in the home, as well as in the Church, is to be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32).
The more we become like Christ, the more we desire to be His servant. As Jesus said: He that is greatest among you shall be your servant (Matthew 23:11). The faithful servant, like Jesus, may need to wash the feet of a Judas who will reward him with ingratitude. But the servant of Christ is always caring for the interests of his Master, since his Master is the King of kings. The servant recognizes that to love and to serve like Jesus did is the highest privilege and brings the greatest spiritual joy. Nowhere is this more important than in the home. Jesus said, the Gentiles (the unsaved world) exercise authority upon them (lord it over them). The nature of the unsaved is to control whoever they can. But it (that attitude) shall not be among you: but whoever truly wants to be great among you, must be your minister (willing servant): And whoever . . . will be the chiefest (position), will be servant of all (everyone). For even the Son of Man came not to be ministered to (served), but to minister (help others), and to give His life a ransom for many (Mark 10:42-45).
Word Studies: 10:1 resort means gathered; 11:8 strawed means spread.
Cross References:
For Mark 10:6: See Gen. 1:27; 5:2. Mark 10:7-8: See Gen. 2:24. Mark 10:19: See Ex. 20:12-16; Deut. 5:16-20. Mark 11:9: See Psa. 118:26. Mark 11:17: See Isa. 56:7; Jer. 7:11.
Prayer Needs:
Government Officials: Rep. Virgil Goode, Jr. (VA), Rep. Gene Green (TX), and Rep. David Hobson (OH) · Pray for Bud Hennessey and the Bible Pathway Radio Broadcasts on KIBC-FM, Burney CA · Country: Chile (15 million) on the southwestern coast of South America · Major language: Spanish · Religious freedom · 63% Roman Catholic; 23% Protestant · Prayer Suggestion: Pray to be content with and thankful for the things you have (Hebrews 13:5).
Memory Verse for the Week: John 15:5