3 Things Parents Should Know about IF
- Michael Foust Crosswalk Headlines Contributor
- Updated Jun 09, 2024
Bea is a sweet tween girl grappling with a load of adult-like challenges.
Her mom died of cancer. Her father is facing heart surgery. And now Bea is moving into her grandmother’s apartment, where she will live until her life (hopefully) gets back to normal.
Her grandmother tries to distract Bea from her ordeal by pulling out a box filled with cherished childhood memories, but Bea isn’t buying it.
“I’m 12,” she tells her grandmother. “I don’t really do that anymore.”
Bea has cast away the innocence and imagination of childhood and has no intentions of returning.
But then Bea’s life gets a little strange. First, she spots a child-sized butterfly roaming her neighborhood. Then, she watches as an eight-foot-tall furry monster tags along. Then, she learns that both creatures and several others are living in an empty room above her grandmother’s apartment.
They’re “imaginary friends” who lost their homes when their owner-children grew too old. Bea, though, isn’t impressed.
“I’m not a kid,” she says.
Can anything, or anyone, help Bea recapture her sense of wonder?
The new movie IF (PG) follows the story of Bea as she investigates her strange neighbors and faces her father’s surgery.
Here are three things parents should know about the film: Warning: spoilers ahead.
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1. It Celebrates Imagination
Slide 1 of 3Bea is a cynical tween girl surrounded by optimism. Each day, she visits the hospital to see her father (portrayed by John Krasinski), a whimsical man who is preparing for major heart surgery but who shows no signs of stress. (It’s the same hospital where her mom died.) He playfully dances with the IV pole. He jokes with her by hiding in the closet. Rarely, though, does she laugh. “Sometimes life doesn’t have to be fun,” she tells him.
Her outlook on life starts to change when she meets her strange neighbors and learns they are part of a “matchmaking agency” that pairs old imaginary friends with new children. (As we learn, children age out of their imaginary friends and can no longer “see” them.) The agency’s ringleader, Cal (Ryan Reynolds), places Bea in charge of matchmaking. They even visit “Memory Lane Retirement” community, where imaginary friends live until they die.
Eventually, Bea regains her imagination, sense of wonder, and joy. She also matches imaginary friends with adults, including her grandmother.
The film promotes imagination, creativity and wonder like few films ever have. After all, many of us are Bea. We’ve grown up, grown old and grown cynical. Often, it’s only when we experience the world through the eyes of a child that we rediscover the joy of the world and rekindle the awe of God’s creation. Our creativity is a reflection of His creativity.
IF urges its audience: Grow up … but stay young at heart.
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2. It Celebrates Friends and Family
Slide 2 of 3Bea’s grandmother displays patience for her granddaughter. Bea’s father, likewise, demonstrates unwavering support and understanding. Perhaps Bea is cynical because she’s traversing puberty. Maybe it’s due to her trials and sorrows. Whatever the case, her family and friends show her unconditional love.
Eventually, their patience bears fruit.
“You’re never alone,” a friend tells her when she’s down.
Her turning point comes at the retirement community, where she grows burdened by the multiple imaginary friends in need and is inspired to help them find a friend. Soon, she discovers that one specific imaginary friend -- a dancer named Blossom (Phoebe Waller-Bridge) -- formerly belonged to her grandmother, who once had dreams of dancing.
A bear named Lewis (Louis Gossett Jr.) tells Bea that imaginary friends are never permanently gone.
“You can always go back,” he tells her.
“How?”
“Memories,” he responds. “They live forever, right there in your heart.”
Bea finds her grandmother’s old records and places one of them on the turntable. Soon, her grandma is transported back to her youth, reminiscing about her dancing days with a sparkle in her eye.
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3. It’s One of the Year’s Best, But…
Slide 3 of 3IF is a live-action/animated fantasy film with plenty of kid-friendly moments. Stuffed animals come to life. So do toys and gummy bears and soap bubbles.
But its adult themes and language may deter some families. Bea is grieving the death of one parent and is fearful that the other one -- her father -- may pass, too. (He has a successful surgery and makes a full recovery, but not before she has a major scare about his health.) The film contains no sexuality or violence but includes at least two misuses of “h-ll” and more than a dozen misuses of “God” (details below).
Even so, IF is easily one of the year’s best family movies, thanks to its solid message and fun plot. It is the latest impressive endeavor from director/writer John Krasinski, who also helmed the first two Quiet Place films.
It also features something rare in Hollywood these days: an original movie that’s not based on intellectual property -- and that’s not a sequel.
Rated PG for thematic elements and mild language. Language details: h-ll (2), OMG (5), single misuse of “God” (10), “swear to G-d” (2).
Entertainment rating: 5 out of 5 stars.
Family-friendly rating: 4 of 5 stars.
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