Why Investing in Your Tween Is Crucial for Successful Teen Years

Ah, the tween years. That uncertain time in a child’s development that has many parents realizing that they need to double down on academic focus and watch their children more carefully as they gain more trust and are exposed to more of the world through society and their peers. What is a parent to do though when they are feeling so much pressure to watch their kids, but also want them to gain the confidence they need to move through the world successfully in their teen years and beyond? 

Enter Amanda Craig, A family therapist who has seen and experienced much of this in her practice and has legitimately written the book [Worthy Books – ISBN 978-1546003083 $23.99 Hardcover, $13.99 Kindle, and available on Audible] on it! Her advice is to stop trying to parent and seize the opportunity to connect with your child instead while they’re still listening and trusting you. When as parents, we worry about our children, we’re creating separation and disconnection with them instead of fostering the connection that’s already been built up to now. There is a neurological explosion that is taking place before us as tweens experience four significant changes that shake them (and us) to the core. As parents, we’ve already been through it, so there’s no visceral reference for what’s happening, only distant memories. For the tweens, this is all brand new and very visceral. Their brains are changing. They feel and experience emotions they do not recognize. They’re hyper-aware of themselves. They do not know how to express themselves. Parents still have a “seat at the table” to make positive impressions on their tweens as they prepare them for the teenage years. 

In this interview, Sarah Hamaker talks with Dr. Amanda Craig about her new book and why the tween years are so important.

Find Amanda's book, Who Are You & What Have You Done with My Kid?: Connect with Your Tween While They Are Still Listening, here!